My Costochondritis Story
A winter flu snowballed into months of relentless chest pain, sleepless nights, and second-guessing my own body. This is how I found a way through the uncertainty and back to feeling like myself again.
When it all began
Winter 2024 started innocently enough. A mild flu came and went, and I assumed life would snap back to normal. As soon as I thought I was recovered, I "celebrated" with a strenuous hike and paid for it within hours - breathless, shaky, and convinced something was seriously wrong. The pain hadn’t shown up yet, but the sensation of not getting a full breath kept me wide awake for two nights.
Panic took over. I went to the ER where they checked my heart from every angle. Every test was spotless. “Likely stress,” they said, and I left with sleeping pills and a mind that felt anything but calm.
The first signs of pain
The very next day a dull ache settled behind my sternum. A quick run for a train turned that ache into a sharp, burning pain. Stuck on a four-hour ride to visit my parents, all I could do was succumb to the panic silently and pray the train would move faster.
Once arrived, we headed straight for the ER yet again: more cardiac tests, more imaging, more bloodwork. This time the working theory was mild pericarditis, so they handed me a two-week prescription for ibuprofen. The diagnosis never quite fit, the pain was centered on my sternum and pressing it made it worse, but it was the only explanation I had at the time.
Ibuprofen brought the pain from an 8/10 to a 4/10, then the progress plateaued. At this point, still no one had even mentioned the word “costochondritis” yet.
Finding a name
When the progress stalled, I turned to research mode. Late-night reading and symptom tracking led me to costochondritis, and suddenly the puzzle pieces lined up. I began experimenting with gentle rehab, posture tweaks, breathing work, and rest strategies shared by others living with it. The pain began to ease, not dramatically, but in slow, encouraging increments.
A GP later confirmed the diagnosis and sent me to a rheumatologist. The MRI was clear, the advice was to keep using ibuprofen as needed and keep going to physio. “It’ll fade soon,” they promised. It didn’t.
A long year of trial and error
Over the next year I became a meticulous detective. I tracked every flare, noted every activity, logged posture tweaks, supplements, physio homework, and breathing exercises. Some experiments set me back, some offered short-term relief, and a handful became staples woven into everyday life.
Eventually the flare-ups lost their intensity. I learned how to pace myself, how to spot triggers early, and how to rebuild strength without stoking the inflammation. These days the discomfort only arises when I sit too long or push too hard - and even then, it passes quickly.
What I learned along the way
- Chest pain is frightening even when the tests are clear. Feeling heard and believed changes everything.
- Tracking sleep, stress, training volume, posture, and flares reveals the patterns you can actually do something about.
- Gentle movement beats total rest. Small, consistent rebuilds win over heroic efforts every time.
- Anxiety needs care too. Breath work and mindset shifts were as important as stretching or strengthening.
- Progress is nonlinear. A flare doesn’t erase the ground you’ve already covered.
Where I am now
Costochondritis forced me to become intentional about recovery, pacing, and listening to my body. I’m stronger and fitter than before it started, and the fear has finally loosened its grip. If you’re stuck in the same loop I was, I hope this story helps you find steadier ground faster.